As I Have Loved You
The Lord works in mysterious ways. How many times have you heard that before? We use those words all the time. I have to admit thought that more recently that became very real for me. Let me explain. My wife is away this weekend on the Walk to Emmaus as a part of the leadership team. I have talked with many people before about this weekend event. Since Kristy and I went on the Walk to Emmaus in 2003 many people have asked me what the weekend is like. I have struggled for almost 7 years to come up with an answer for that question. All I could ever come up with is, “it is one of those things that you have to experience to understand.” While I was preparing for this message, God helped me to really better understand the purpose of the Walk to Emmaus.
While preparing for today’s message I did some research on what it means to love as Jesus loves us? Suddenly like an oncoming train I was keenly aware of the answer to that question. The weekend is really aimed at helping people to understand what it means to love one another as Jesus has loved us. So today, while my wife is helping a group of women understand that concept, I hope I can bring some clarity to the question for you. My wife’s team will have spent 72 hours answering that question; we will spend a lot less time than that.
In the New Testament, there are three concepts that are discussed more than anything else by Jesus. These three concepts are love, faith, and repentance. I did a simple Internet search the other day to find counts of specific words in the Bible. I am not sure how exact they are but I definitely found the results of the counts interesting for today’s message. In the New Testament of the King James version the word repent is used 697 times, love is used 179 times and faith is used 245 times. The only words used more often than these three are Lord, God, and Jesus. So if we don’t count the three names for God and Jesus, love is the third most used word in the New Testament.
Today, Jesus calls us all to love one another as He has loved us. But what does that really mean exactly? What is it here that Jesus is expecting from each of us? What does it mean to love one another as Jesus has loved us?
With that in mind, let’s take a look at the context of today’s Gospel reading. Earlier in this Chapter, Jesus had washed the feet of His disciples and was teaching them a lesson in being a servant for others. Jesus would soon call them to a ministry of servant leadership and not just leadership. Jesus would call them to lead others to salvation through Jesus by serving others and demonstrating to them just how much God loves them and how much God wants for them to be saved. Jesus also knew He would be betrayed and that He would be crucified for the forgiveness of the sins of mankind. He told the disciples of this and Judas had just left the Upper Room into the night to do what he had to do when we come upon the words in John 13:31 – 35.
It is at this point that Jesus tells his remaining disciples that it is time for Jesus to be glorified and God glorified though this. How confused the disciples must have been. They didn’t have all the puzzle pieces that we have today at this point in their lives. Yes they knew that Jesus was the Messiah and some probably even grasped the concept of Jesus and God being one in being, but they had no idea of what God’s plan for the redemption of sinners would be and I am sure they were very confused at this point. Things were starting to happen fast and they would be called upon to be fast learners. They would be a witness to the redemption of mankind and their lives would never be the same again.
Now Jesus tells his disciples that where He is going, they cannot go. I am sure they thought he was going to some room or maybe even someplace to pray and wanted to be alone. Maybe they thought he was going on a journey on a ship to a foreign land. They all knew the Jewish leadership was not happy with the way Jesus was shaking things up and maybe they thought he was going someplace to lay low for a while to avoid the leaders. We do not know what they were thinking but I am certain they were not thinking about crucifixion at this point. I would imagine it was probably the furthest thing from their mind.
It is at this point that Jesus gives us a new commandment. It is really not all that unlike the discussion Jesus had with others when he summed up all the laws of the prophets into two commandments:
- Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind.
- Love your neighbor as yourself.
It was pretty clear then that Love was the important concept here. We are called to love God and in answering that call to love God, we would love God’s other children. When it comes right down to it, all of creation was created by God’s hand and in God’s image. Regardless of what we think of others, they were created in God’s image and He loves them. Jesus is clear on that when he gives us the new commandment, “As I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” Jesus is clear here that this is the Christian witness he wants the world to see. It is love that Jesus wants us to use to show the world that we are Christian. We are called to unite with our Christian brothers and sisters in love. A love that is so uncommon among such a large group of people that the world will have no choice but notice. Not only will the world notice this witness but they will look on it with a sense of covetousness. Any time the world is a witness to true Christian love, they see it as something to be aspired toward. They will see this and think, “I want what they have.”
Love one another as I have loved you. These are tough words for us. We find it easy to love our families and even most of our fellow church members. The tough part comes though when we are called by Jesus to love the unlovable. Those people we come into contact in our lives who are in need of love yet manage to make it very difficult for others to love them. You know who I am talking about. It is those people who we know we are supposed to love but they have not done anything to deserve it. Maybe it is a murderer in prison or maybe it is someone who stole something from us. Sometimes it is even people who have said hurtful words and never apologized. It is against our nature to forgive them and love them as Jesus commands. Yes that is right, I said commands, I did not say asks. Remember in our Gospel reading Jesus said, “A new commandment I give to you.” He said commandment and not suggestion or guidance. This is clearly something that is important and something that Jesus expects us to do while we wait for his return.
Jesus is the model for this love that He wants us to show for one another. If we read the 4 Gospels in the Bible (Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John), we can see clear examples of love by reading about the things that Jesus did while he was here on earth. It is hard for us to hear at this point that Jesus commands us to love one another in the same way. Jesus is not calling us to some kind of a feeling of love for one another and He is not calling us to a sense of caring for one another. He is calling us to action with this commandment. He is calling us to show our love through Actions. How else would the world know we are his disciples unless they could see this love through our actions? Jesus is calling us to real love. You see, real love forgets self. Real love knows no danger. Real love doesn’t count the cost.
The gospel text today is about this kind of love. Jesus’ words could easily be about being a good mother or father, but actually they are aimed at the whole Christian family, at the whole Church. Jesus says these words to the Christian church as a whole (including all denominations of the Christian church).
Take note that this is a commandment to love all Christians, not just Methodists. We are called to love all who love Christ and to show that love with action. Think about how awesome the world would be today if all denominations would set aside their differences and love one another just because Jesus told us to. I think the world as a whole would have a much different impression of what it means to be a Christian. I also think the world would be a much better place.
We read in Revelation 21:1 – 6 that God will dwell among us again in the new Heaven and the new earth. As a preparation to dwell with God for all of eternity, we are called on to learn to love one another as Jesus has loved us. In this way we will not only become all that Jesus calls us to be, but we will be able to experience a for-taste of what it will be like in the new Heaven and the new earth.
As we prepare for a week ahead there is a question we should ponder as we go about our day to day lives. Let’s all consider the question of what we can do to show the world that we are Christ’s disciples. In what way is God calling us to serve and love others as Jesus has loved us? Who do we know that needs to feel the love of God in the here and now?
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